Who Do You Think You Are?!
Who do you think you are?
When was the last time you asked yourself that question?
Where are you at with your self-awareness?
Are you conscious of who you are?
A beautiful friend of mine stayed with me for a few days recently and we chatted a lot about life, men, jobs; you know the, usual girl talk.
It made me think of a time when I had hardly any female friends because I was a tomboy.
Who Am I & And Who Do I Want To Be?
My friend and I are in our 30ties now and we certainly think about that question a lot…
And I feel like I want to share my thoughts with you as well.
What are the labels you stick on your forehead on a daily basis?
One label I used to wear on my forehead a lot was TOMBOY. By believing and living that, it ultimately was who I became. I thought that being a tomboy was just who I was. I used to be intimidated by the presence of other women, especially good looking and confident ones.
‘Cause I am a tomboy, right?! That was fine for a while but at a point it did not serve me anymore and it was no longer who I felt I was.
So, if this is simply a projection I’m directing towards me, a label I stick on my forehead, that also means I can change it, right? I can just remove that label and start saying I am a woman. I think like a woman and I can certainly act like a woman. I start sticking the WOMAN label on my forehead, surrounding myself with women I adore and look up to and I embraced my femininity…
And you know what? I FREAKIN’ LOVE BEING A WOMAN NOW! I embrace it, I am proud and I am very happily surrounded by my gorgeous and empowering girlfriends.
I guess what I am trying to say here, is that you are in charge of who you are.
You are the one who can choose to be a tomboy or a lady.
You can keep the label of ”I am not good enough” or ”I am broke” on your forehead or you can throw it in the bin and start using the label that says ”I am worthy to do that and I can.” Guess what happens?
So, beautiful. What are the labels you are using? Who do you think you are?
Take action, the choice is yours.